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Virginia M. Usher

Virginia M. Usher

Female 1913 - 1998  (85 years)


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  • Name Virginia M. Usher  [1, 2, 3, 4] 
    Birth 25 May 1913  St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Female 
    Death 30 Jun 1998  St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4] 


    • U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007Name: Virginia Mary Usher[Virginia M Usher] SSN: 492076485Gender: FemaleRace: WhiteBirth Date: 25 May 1913Birth Place: St Louis, MissouriDeath Date: 30 Jun 1998Father: Thomas F UsherMother: Bridget McDonoughType of Claim: Original SSN.Notes: Nov 1936: Name listed as VIRGINIA MARY USHER; 07 Jul 1998: Name listed as VIRGINIA M USHERSource InformationAncestry.com. U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015.Original data: Social Security Applications and Claims, 1936-2007.
      U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007Name: Virginia Mary Usher[Virginia M Usher] SSN: 492076485Gender: FemaleRace: WhiteBirth Date: 25 May 1913Birth Place: St Louis, MissouriDeath Date: 30 Jun 1998Father: Thomas F UsherMother: Bridget McDonoughType of Claim: Original SSN.Notes: Nov 1936: Name listed as VIRGINIA MARY USHER; 07 Jul 1998: Name listed as VIRGINIA M USHERSource InformationAncestry.com. U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2015.Original data: Social Security Applications and Claims, 1936-2007.
    Burial 3 Jul 1998  St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location  [4] 
    • Mt. Olive Cemetery
    Person ID I1338  Branches and Roots
    Last Modified 13 Feb 2026 

    Father Thomas Francis Usher,   b. 20 Apr 1870, Tennekelly, Fethard, Cashel, Cty Tipperary, Ireland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 13 Oct 1926, St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 56 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Mother Bridget Mary McDonough,   b. 11 May 1878, Bally Conlought, Hedford, Cty Galway, Ireland Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 26 Aug 1961, St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 83 years) 
    Relationship natural 
    Marriage 20 Jun 1900  St Louis, Missouri, USA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Family ID F1474  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  • Notes 
    • Letter from Virginia M. Usher to Mary Helen McDonough O'Malley

      [page 1]
      St. Louis, Mo
      Sunday, March 24, 1991

      Dear Mary Ellen,

      First of all my apologies for the delay in answering your letter. I have a serious eye problem and my central vision is effected and I can no longer read. I can write but cant read back what I wrote so please forgive me for any errors.

      Now for any help I could give you on Michael McDonough - I am sorry to say we know nothing about him.

      [page 2]
      years and years ago my mother mentioned a brother Michael, and that is all she said about him. When asked, her reply was always - "I have nothing to say." The subject was dropped and we never heard of him again.

      Our cousins knew nothing of him either.

      You said your mother married him in 1918. Was that the last time you heard of him?

      [page 3]
      I am so sorry I cannot help you if he was your father then we of course would be your cousin.

      I do wish with all my heart that I could throw a little light on this mystery but there are no answers here.

      Good luck in your search and God bless you. Our prayers are with you.

      Virginia Usher
      4249 Michigan Ave
      Apt 608
      St. Louis, Mo
      63111

      [page 4]
      An after thought. Have you tried contacting the family in Ireland. I don't know who is left over there but the address is --

      McDonough Family
      Bally Conlaught
      Headford
      County Galway
      Ireland

  • Sources 
    1. [S8] Staff, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, (Name: Name: St. Louis Post-Dispatch; Location: St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States;;), Obit: Ayers, Katheryn M. (Usher). 11MAR1992.
      AYERS, KATHERYN M. (nee Usher), on Tues., March 10, 1992. Baptized into the hope of Christ Resurrection, beloved wife of the late James W. Ayers, dear mother of Tim W. Ayers, dear grandmother of Shannon and Brian, dear sister of Virginia M. Usher and the late Thomas Usher, William Usher and Bernice Scalfano, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin and friend.

      Funeral from GEBKEN-BENZ Mortuary, 2842 Meramec St., Thurs., March 12, 9:30 a.m. to St. Anthony of Padua Church for 10 a.m. Mass. A member of the Wednesday Club. Interment Mt. Olive Cemetery. Visitation Wed. 5 - 9 p.m.

      St. Louis Post-Dispatch. 11MAR1992
      HFA: 02JUN2021

    2. [S8] Staff, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, (Name: Name: St. Louis Post-Dispatch; Location: St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States;;), Scalfano, Bernice F (Usher).
      SCALFANO, BERNICE F. (nee Usher) fortified with the Sacraments of the Holy Mother Church, Wed., Aug. 28, 1985, beloved wife of Nick C. Scalfano, dear mother Nick k. Scalfano, and Carole A. Kozemski, dear sister of Thomas Usher, Katheryn Ayers, Virginia Usher, and the late William Usher, our dear mother-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister-in-law, aunt, great-aunt, cousin, and friend.

      Funeral from TED FENDLER Funeral Home, 7420 Michigan at Koein, Fri., Aug. 30, at 10:30 a.m. to St. Timtohy Church, for Mass at 11 a.m. Interment Lakewood Park Cemetery. Masses preferred, or memorials to Leukemia Society, would be appreciated. Visitation after 2 p.m. Thurs.

      St. Louis Post Dispatch: 29AUG1985.
      HFA: 27OCT2018.

    3. [S94] Staff, San Diego Union-Tribune, (Name: San Diego Union-Tribune; Location: San Diego, California, United States;), Usher, Thomas F.
      homas F. Usher, 88, cabinetmaker and former field superintendent for a construction company, died Thursday in his La Mesa home. He had lived in the county 52 years and was active in his church and in the Knights of Columbus.

      Memorial Mass will be at 9:30 a.m. today in St. John of the Cross Catholic Church in Lemon Grove, where Mr. Usher was an active member. Private inurnment is planned.

      Mr. Usher was a native of St. Louis. His father died when Thomas Usher was in his early teens, and he went to work to help support the family.

      He and Ruth Hukenbeck were married in St. Louis in 1932. They settled in San Diego in 1939 and moved to La Mesa about 20 years ago. Friendly and outgoing, Mr. Usher was elected to offices in organizations in which he was a member. He was a bowler, and he belonged to several bowling leagues. He also was a gardener throughout his adult life.

      Mr. Usher was a skilled cabinetmaker. He also worked in construction and did many remodeling jobs on his own. He was a field superintendent for Ninteman Construction Company for 20 years, retiring from that company in 1971.

      He was a life member of the Carpenters Union.

      Mr. Usher had held many local and regional offices in Knights of Columbus. He was a delegate to the Knights of Columbus convention in New York City the year he retired. He and his wife attended the convention and traveled on the East Coast and through most of the United States.

      Survivors include his wife of 59 years, Ruth; two sons, John of La Mesa and William of Brentwood; two sisters, Katheryn Ayers and Virginia Usher, both of St. Louis; and four grandchildren. Memorial contributions may be sent to the International Order of Alhambra's Endowment Fund for Handicapped Children, 4200 Leeds Ave., Baltimore, Md. 21229-5496.

      San Diego Union, The: 25NOV1991
      Accessed: 17NOV2016

    4. [S8] Staff, St. Louis Post-Dispatch, (Name: Name: St. Louis Post-Dispatch; Location: St. Louis, St. Louis, Missouri, United States;;), Usher, Virginia M.
      Usher, Virginia M., On Tues., June 30, 1998, baptized into the Hope of Christ’s Resurrection, dear daughter of the late Thomas F. and Bridget Usher (nee McDonough), dear sister of the late Thomas and William Usher, Katheryn Ayers and Bernice Scalfano, sister-in-law, aunt, great-aunt, great-great-aunt, cousin and friend.

      Funeral from GEBKEN-BENZ Mortuary, 2842 Meramec St., on Fri., July 3 at 8:30 a.m. to St. Anthony of Padua Church for 9:00 a.m. Mass. Interment Mt. Olive Cemetery. A member of St. Anthony Wednesday Club, AARP, and St. Anthony Ladies Sodality. Masses preferred. Visitation Thurs., 3 – 8 p.m.

      St. Louis Post Dispatch: 02JUL1998
      Accessed: 27OCT2018